How to Attract, Keep, and Maintain Personal Romantic Relationships

KKJ Psychological Services believes that loving relationships are key to a happy and fulfilling life.

We want to help you find love and keep love!  

Having evaluated and worked in therapy with hundreds of individuals and couples, we are now using our expertise to help you understand how to make your relationships work.

Pulling from a variety of informal and formal psychological and relationship assessments, we will construct a personalized relationship report. 

Package Options:

We tailor our services to best meet the needs of our clients.

We also know that everyone is busy and working hard, so we have constructed packages that allow some or all of the process to occur remotely.

Package 1: Individual Assessment

This can be customized based on your needs, which we can discuss at the initial consultation. Assessments can be done in-person, by telephone, or via Telehealth. 

  • Initial Consultation (30 minutes)
  • Individual Psychological Interview (approximately 1.5 hours)
  • Feedback Session and Report (approximately 30 minutes)

You can then select:

  • Formal Testing (approximately 1-2 hours), and/or:
  • Informal Testing (approximately 1-2 hours), and/or:
  • Consultation with previous partners/family and friends (approximately 30 minutes)

You will receive an extensive psychological evaluation and report related to relationship well-being to include a thorough assessment of:

  • Your personality traits
  • Your attachment patterns
  • Your value system
  • Your mental health status and relevant diagnoses
  • An identification of personal strengths and areas of growth as they relate to your potential to attract, keep, and maintain personal romantic connections.

In addition, you will also receive:

  • Detailed recommendations for finding and keeping love as a result of your unique personal profile. 
  • Follow-up support options will be provided as well.

Package 2: Relationship Assessment

This includes all of the above for BOTH parties. Additionally, a joint interview is included.

Package 3: Dating/Relationship Coaching

This is custom designed for your needs. Pricing depends on clinician to whom you are matched or choose.  

Why Is This So Important?

Loving relationships are key to a happy and fulfilling life.

There is an incredible amount of research showing how important social connection is for happiness, reducing health problems, and combating depression.  Especially for men, long-term committed relationships help buffer against problems and are a major source of social connection.

Can You Relate To This?

Perhaps you're a professional who looks good on paper (good job, good income, attractive, etc), but you may not have amazing social skills, or you may tend to work too much, or you may tend to put relationships in second place.

Perhaps you're a high-achiever, but you aren't fully in touch with what you're doing to interfere with having a successful relationship.

Maybe you're too busy, maybe you work from home and don't get a lot of feedback on your behavior, maybe you're a little "awkward", or maybe you just need a few tips.

This is for anyone who wants to grow in this aspect of life!

What Are Some Additional Benefits?

Because we're performing testing and preparing thorough reports for you, you'll get a good understanding of your strengths and weaknesses. You'll learn how to better engage in a relationship and you'll learn strategies for making positive changes.

In addition, you'll learn how to make better choices on partners. For example, perhaps you're an "in charge" type of will either need a match with a similar personality or you will need to be with someone who is happy to be less in charge, without being a doormat, because you wouldn't respect that.

Ready To Get Started?

There is no better investment of time or money than working on yourself and your romantic relationship.

Pricing is $200 per hour. A basic package will be around $500.
We can help you decide the best plan for your situation.

To learn more or to setup your initial consultation,
please contact us at 919-493-1975 or at

Spaces are limited. 

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